When you meet with a wrongful death lawyer, you need to discuss the specifics of your case and make sure your lawyer understands the full extent of what happened. Here are some key topics to cover in your meeting. The Circumstances Around the Wrongful Death During your meeting with a wrongful death lawyer, discuss the circumstances surrounding the death of your loved one in detail. This includes gathering information such as who was involved in the incident and what happened during the events leading up to and after the death.